Henri J.M. Nouwen Quotes

“Intimacy between people requires closeness as well as distance. It is like dancing. Sometimes we are very close, touching each other or holding each other; sometimes we move away from each other and let the space between us become an area where we can freely move.To keep the right balance between closeness and distance requires hard work, especially since the needs of the partners may be quite different at a given moment. One might desire closeness while the other wants distance. One might want to be held while the other looks for independence. A perfect balance seldom occurs, but the honest and open search for that balance can give birth to a beautiful dance, worthy to behold.”

“Closeness eases the anxiety and depression of believing that no one really cares about you. It softens the frustration and anger that come with feeling that no one understands you. Suddenly, others become available to us. Suddenly, we feel better inside.”

“My mom and I are very close.”

“Closed mouths, only lead to closed gates. Share your salvation!”

“It’s easier to be close to God during prayer time when you’re close to God all the time.”

“So close that your hand upon my chest is mine,so close that your eyes close with my sleep.”

“All of the authoritative books on bears seem to agree on one thing: if you're close enough to a bear to cause it to change its activity pattern, you're too close, and in possible danger.”

“Perception is strong and sight weak. In strategy it is important to see distant things as if they were close and to take a distanced view of close things.”

“It's a huge disservice to classify all minds as either closed or open. I find the best minds are closed by openable windows.”

“What is far is very close, and what is close is very far”