“Attempts to wake before our time are often punished, especially by those who love us most. Because they, bless them, are asleep. They think anyone who wakes up, or who, still asleep, realizes that what is taken to be real is a ‘dream’ is going crazy.”
R.D. Laing“You don't love me.. Believe me! You don't love anyone. How could you? And no one loves you. How could they? Except me, it's only because I love you that I'm telling you all this. I Love you.. R. D. Laing.”
R.D. Laing“If I could turn you on, if I could drive you out of your wretched mind, if I could tell you I would let you know.”
R.D. Laing, The Politics of Experience/The Bird of Paradise“They are playing a game. They are playing at not playing a game. If I show them I see they are, I shall break the rules and they will punish me. I must play their game, of not seeing I see the game”
R.D. Laing“Schizophrenia cannot be understood without understanding despair.”
R.D. Laing“We are effectively destroying ourselves by violence masquerading as love.”
R.D. Laing“Attempts to wake before our time are often punished, especially by those who love us most. Because they, bless them, are asleep. They think anyone who wakes up, or who, still asleep, realizes that what is taken to be real is a ‘dream’ is going crazy.”
R.D. Laing“Sanity today appears to rest very largely on a capacity to adapt to the external world—the interpersonal world, and the realm of human collectivities.As this external human world is almost completely and totally estranged from the inner, any personal direct awareness of the inner world already has grave ”
R.D. Laing“Pain in this life is not avoidable, but the pain we create avoiding pain is avoidable.”
R.D. Laing“We live in a moment of history where change is so speeded up that we begin to see the present only when it is already disappearing.”
R.D. Laing“Perfection is something we should all strive for. It's a duty and a joy to perfect one's nature... The most difficult thing is love. A loveless, driving person that just competes in the rat race is far from perfection in my book.”
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