Koren Zailckas Quotes

“I think, for one, we have to really accept that anger is a normal human emotion that can be a positive force for change.”

“I think, for one, we have to really accept that anger is a normal human emotion that can be a positive force for change.”

“We are taught to believe it's bad to be angry, or at least it's not good. That's not the case all throughout the world. People are more open and not embarrassed about it. For instance in Paris, people believe Americans have a really unhealthy relation with anger. They think it's essential to get angry.”

“I think what I learned in research is that as Americans, we're very distrustful of anger. We're not sure if we should repress it. The idea that anger is supposed to be controlled is American, and we try to keep it out of our homes.”

“I do think anger is so difficult for women. Girls think it undermines their femininity it's not very ladylike. ”

“I'm trying to figure out precisely which character flaw might be responsible for my latest life failure.”

“I'd written Smashed not because I was ambitious and not because writing down my feelings was cathartic (it felt more like playing one's own neurosurgeon sans anesthesia). No. I'd made a habit--and eventually a profession--of memoir because I hail from one of those families where shows of emotions are discouraged.”

“My boyfriends have all been as stoical as queen's guards. They'd been patient, committed, and dispassionate, and I'd had to really debase myself to extract any emotion, either grin or grimace, from them.”

“It's meant I will act like less of an asshole, but feel much more like one.”

“I once heard someone say that the concept of moderation seems a little extreme, and tonight...I agree.”

“Whether it's trying to convince others that something is more true, more virtuous, or more desirable--all communication is rhetoric in action.”