“Grieving the loss of a loved one—whether human or animal—is not only permissible, it is essential.”
Linda Bender“To be sure, there are human abilities that other animals lack, but the more we learn about animals, the more abilities we discover that humans lack. Obviously, if animals were included in the Olympics, humans wouldn’t take home any gold medals. We can’t run as fast as a cheetah, swim as well as a fish, or lift as much weight as an elephant.”
Linda Bender“Animals in children’s literature always have a soul life because children perceive animals as having souls.”
Linda Bender“The belief that every living thing has an individual soul is called animism. (Anima, which means 'soul,' is also the root of the word 'animal.') Anthropologists have found this belief to be universal in children, though the children themselves don't think of it as a belief. It is, to them, one of the most obvious features of the world around them, and the most obvious way of interpreting what goes on in that world.”
Linda Bender, Animal Wisdom: Learning from the Spiritual Lives of Animals“Because we tend to equate intelligence with language--particularly the ability to use language to think and communicate abstractions--it is natural to conclude that animals are, on the whole, a lot less intelligent than we are.”
Linda Bender, Animal Wisdom: Learning from the Spiritual Lives of Animals“Great teachers often come to us in humble packaging. That little dog held the wisdom of a sage in his heart. I learned from him that healing is not about the success or failure of the physical body, that physical survival is secondary. All creatures wish to live and thrive, but bodies do wear out. The number of days we walk the earth (or fly or swim or crawl on it) is not the point. Animals live in the present moment. If kindness, caring, and respect fill that moment, life is fill, no matter what came before or what might come in the future. A soul that feels loved is joyous and healed.”
Linda Bender, Animal Wisdom: Learning from the Spiritual Lives of Animals“It is my understanding from an intuitive relationship with animals that it is complete folly to try to figure out what is right or wrong for humans by observing what other animals are doing. Observe any animal and you will quickly figure out that a hawk does not try to hunt like an eagle. The wolf does not try to be a lion.”
Linda Bender, Animal Wisdom: Learning from the Spiritual Lives of Animals“I believe we have this idea that bad things ought to be prevented from happening.”
Linda Bender, Animal Wisdom: Learning from the Spiritual Lives of Animals“I believe the happiness we feel in relation to animals is immensely significant. I believe it is absolutely central to our physical, psychological, and spiritual well-being.”
Linda Bender, Animal Wisdom: Learning from the Spiritual Lives of Animals“Animals don't know exactly what will happen when they die any more than we do. In the absence of specific knowledge, they simply trust. They trust death the way they trust life: as participation in the Source. What will happen when they die must be okay because what is happening now is okay.”
Linda Bender, Animal Wisdom: Learning from the Spiritual Lives of Animals“We all came into this world wired to connect with all life.”
Linda Bender, Animal Wisdom: Learning from the Spiritual Lives of Animals