“I liked to call myself a poet and had affected a habit of reading classical texts (in translation, of course – I was a lazy student). I would ride the Greyhound for thirty-six hours down from the Midwest to Leechfield, then spend days dressed in black in the scalding heat of my mother’s front porch reading Homer (or Ovid or Virgil) and waiting for someone to ask me what I was reading. No one ever did. People asked me what I was drinking, how much I weighed, where I was living, and if I had married yet, but no one gave me a chance to deliver my lecture on Great Literature.”
Mary Karr“Poetry is for me Eucharistic. You take someone else's suffering into your body, their passion comes into your body, and in doing that you commune, you take communion, you make a community with others.”
Mary Karr“Prose cannot compete with the economy of poetry, the ability to have a full artistic experience in a short period of time.”
Mary Karr“Poetry privileges music and is aesthetically more challenging. Prose privileges information and is emotionally more challenging.”
Mary Karr“If dysfunction means that a family doesn't work, then every family ambles into some arena in which that happens, where relationships get strained or even break down entirely. We fail each other or disappoint each other. That goes for parents, siblings, kids, marriage partners - the whole enchilada.”
Mary Karr“There are women succeeding beyond their wildest dreams because of their sobriety.”
Mary Karr“Joy, it is, which I've never known before, only pleasure or excitement. Joy is a different thing, because its focus exists outside the self-delight in something external, not satisfaction of some inner craving.”
Mary Karr“I think a dysfunctional family is any family with more than one person in it.”
Mary Karr“A university is a city of ideas, and we're grateful you became citizens of our city.”
Mary Karr“The American religion-so far as there is one anymore-seems to be doubt. Whoever believes the least wins, because he'll never be found wrong.”
Mary Karr“But it's a neurological fact that the scared self holds on while the reasoned one lets go.”
Mary Karr