“If a woman had a problem in the 1950's and 1960's, she knew that something must be wrong with her marriage, or with herself. Other women were satisfied with their lives, she thought. What kind of a woman was she if she did not feel this mysterious fulfillment waxing the kitchen floor? She was so ashamed to admit her dissatisfaction that she never know how many other women shared it.”
Betty Friedan“You can have it all, just not all at the same time.”
Betty Friedan“It is better for a woman to compete impersonally in society, as men do, than to compete for dominance in her own home with her husband, compete with her neighbors for empty status, and so smother her son that he cannot compete at all.”
Betty Friedan“We need to see men and women as equal partners, but it's hard to think of movies that do that. When I talk to people, they think of movies of forty-five years ago! Hepburn and Tracy!”
Betty Friedan“Men are not the enemy, but the fellow victims. The real enemy is women's denigration of themselves.”
Betty Friedan“Aging is not lost youth but a new stage of opportunity and strength.”
Betty Friedan“Neither woman nor man lives by work or love alone.... The human self defines itself and grows through love and work: All psychology before and after Freud boils down to that.”
Betty Friedan“It is easier to live life through someone else than to become complete yourself.”
Betty Friedan“When she stopped conforming to the conventional picture of femininity she finally began to enjoy being a woman.”
Betty Friedan“We couldn't possibly know where it would lead but we knew it had to be done.”
Betty Friedan“We couldn't possibly know where it would lead but we knew it had to be done.”
Betty Friedan