“It's amazing how many things you can do when you're just pretending.”
Kim Gordon“Families are like little villages. You know where everything is, you know how everything works, your identity is fixed, and you can't really leave, or connect with anything or anybody outside, until your physically no longer there.”
Kim Gordon, Girl in a Band“It's amazing how many things you can do when you're just pretending.”
Kim Gordon“I see it as more of a teenage activity than, you know, she's only 11, but you know, I think it's great that she knows so many girls who want to play music. And I see it more as a teen activity than I do as going into music.”
Kim Gordon“You can't be a strong or cool woman and be represented except in a harsh way, looking mean and cold and hard. It's like reverse sexism.”
Kim Gordon“I spent a lot of time vacillating between wanting to be seen as attractive, being terrified by too much attention, and wanting to succeed and fit in without anyone's noticing me.”
Kim Gordon“Marriage is a long conversation, someone once said, and maybe so is a rock band's life. A few minutes later, both were done.”
Kim Gordon“That stage in life when older people assume that just because you've graduated college you know who you are, or what you're doing, and in fact most people don't.”
Kim Gordon, Girl in a Band“I remember how the book talked about the pressure to please and be perfect that every woman falls into and then projects onto her daughter. Nothing is ever good enough. No woman can ever outrun what she has to do. No one can be all things - a mother, a good partner, a lover, as well as a competitor in the workplace.”
Kim Gordon, Girl in a Band“. . . when my family headed out west, like any birth canal Rochester was forgotten.”
Kim Gordon, Girl in a Band“How was she not the quintessential woman in our culture, compulsively pleasing others in order to achieve some degree of perfection and power that's forever just around the corner, out of reach? It was easier for her to disappear, to free herself finally from that body, to find a perfection in dying.”
Kim Gordon, Girl in a Band