“It’s worth noting my family doesn’t use the word step regarding anyone who’s married into our family. Jerry isn’t, nor has he ever been, my step-dad. His mom isn’t my step grandma: neither are my aunts, uncles, or cousins. While there was never a discussion regarding how we categorize or title our family, we all just understood that for us, we are all simply family.”
Natalie Perry“Our family had waited so long for this moment and had spent so many years being told we were undeserving of this basic right. But for me there was a sense of validation because after eighteen years, I was finally able to stand with my two dads when they legally wed.”
Natalie Perry, Dad #1, Dad #2: A Queerspawn View from the Closet“Ultimately, the one thing that makes a family is love.”
Natalie Perry, Dad #1, Dad #2: A Queerspawn View from the Closet“For those of us who are told our families are wrong, we can question more strongly what we believe is right.”
Natalie Perry, Dad #1, Dad #2: A Queerspawn View from the Closet“People have the right to their opinions. But I also have the right to my family. No one in our country should be put in the situation where they grow up in fear because our society has decided some people are valued less than others.”
Natalie Perry, Dad #1, Dad #2: A Queerspawn View from the Closet“What I don’t understand is how some people say they can recognize the necessity to provide people with equal treatment under the law but they say it only applies in certain situations. People still use their religion and morality as an excuse to deny services to those perceived as other.”
Natalie Perry, Dad #1, Dad #2: A Queerspawn View from the Closet“It’s worth noting my family doesn’t use the word step regarding anyone who’s married into our family. Jerry isn’t, nor has he ever been, my step-dad. His mom isn’t my step grandma: neither are my aunts, uncles, or cousins. While there was never a discussion regarding how we categorize or title our family, we all just understood that for us, we are all simply family.”
Natalie Perry, Dad #1, Dad #2: A Queerspawn View from the Closet“I asked my dad, “If we were going to have two dads, should we call you Dad Number One and Dad Number Two?”
Natalie Perry, Dad #1, Dad #2: A Queerspawn View from the Closet