“Laziness is not particularly terrible or wonderful. Rather it has a basic living quality that deserves to be experienced just as it is. Perhaps we’ll find an irritating, pulsating quality in laziness. We might feel it as dull and heavy or as vulnerable and raw. Whatever we discover, as we explore it further, we find nothing to hold on to, nothing solid, only groundless, wakeful energy. This process of experiencing laziness directly and nonverbally is transformative. It unlocks a tremendous energy that is usually blocked by our habit of running away. This is because when we stop resisting laziness, our identity as the one who is lazy begins to fall apart completely. Without the blinders of ego, we connect with a fresh outlook, a greater vision. This is how laziness—or any other demon—introduces us to the compassionate life.”
Pema Chödrön“In Buddha’s opinion, to train in staying open and curious—to train in dissolving our assumptions and beliefs—is the best use of our human lives.”
Pema Chödrön, The Pocket Pema Chodron“PATIENCE is the antidote to anger, a way to learn to love and care for whatever we meet on the path.”
Pema Chödrön, The Pocket Pema Chodron“We have two alternatives: either we question our beliefs - or we don't. Either we accept our fixed versions of reality- or we begin to challenge them. In Buddha's opinion, to train in staying open and curious - to train in dissolving our assumptions and beliefs - is the best use of our human lives.”
Pema Chödrön, The Pocket Pema Chodron“The calligraphy reads, “Pointing directly at your own heart, you find Buddha.” Listening to talks about the dharma, or the teachings of Buddha, or practicing meditation is nothing other than studying ourselves.”
Pema Chödrön, The Pocket Pema Chodron“In sitting meditation, we train in mindfulness and unconditional friendliness: in being steadfast with our bodies, our emotions, our thoughts.”
Pema Chödrön, The Pocket Pema Chodron“Meditation practice isn’t about trying to throw ourselves away and become something better.”
Pema Chödrön, The Pocket Pema Chodron“Meditation takes us just as we are, with our confusion and our sanity. This complete acceptance of ourselves as we are is called maitri, or unconditional friendliness, a simple, direct relationship with the way we are.”
Pema Chödrön, The Pocket Pema Chodron“Meditation is a totally nonviolent, nonaggressive occupation.”
Pema Chödrön, The Pocket Pema Chodron“Meditation practice is not about later, when you get it all together and you’re this person you really respect.”
Pema Chödrön, The Pocket Pema Chodron“IN practicing meditation, we’re not trying to live up to some kind of ideal—quite the opposite.”
Pema Chödrön, The Pocket Pema Chodron