“Love is always a surprise and you never get it right.”

“Inez and I had been in the same book club for a while. She once told me that literary theory was reading without imagination, and I’ve loved her ever since.”

“A lack of narrative structure, as you know, will cause anxiety.”

“She knows what it's like to love someone who cannot love you back. Someone who needs you, holds you, yes, but someone who will never know that love is the knife in your heart.”

“Love is always a surprise and you never get it right.”

“Every act of loving affirms the goodness of the lover just because he is capable of loving and being loved.”

“I loved her for what I couldn't understand about her. Love searches for the mystery in the beloved, seeks the unknowable.”

“A pure love is a selfless love, but can desire ever be selfless?”

“You lose a wallet or keys or something and you notice in a second, but your life can go missing and you don't even know it.”

“We read novels because we need stories; we crave them; we can’t live without telling them and hearing them. Stories are how we make sense of our lives and of the world. When we’re distressed and go to therapy, our therapist’s job is to help us tell our story. Life doesn’t come with plots; it’s messy and chaotic; life is one damn, inexplicable thing after another. And we can’t have that. We insist on meaning. And so we tell stories so that our lives make sense.”