“That bar also delineated the realm of sweat and hourly wage, the working world that college was educating me to leave. Rewards in that realm were few. No one congratulated you for clocking out. Your salary was spare. The Legion served as recompense. So the physical comforts you bouth there—hot boudain sausage and cold beer—had value. You attended the place, by which I mean you not only went there but gave it attention your job didn’t deserve. Pool got shot not as metaphor for some corporate battle, but as itself alone. And the spiritual comforts-friendship, for instance—couldn’t be confused with payback for something you’d accomplished, for in the Legion everybody punched the same clock, drew the same wage, won the same prize.”
Mary Karr“Poetry is for me Eucharistic. You take someone else's suffering into your body, their passion comes into your body, and in doing that you commune, you take communion, you make a community with others.”
Mary Karr“Prose cannot compete with the economy of poetry, the ability to have a full artistic experience in a short period of time.”
Mary Karr“Poetry privileges music and is aesthetically more challenging. Prose privileges information and is emotionally more challenging.”
Mary Karr“If dysfunction means that a family doesn't work, then every family ambles into some arena in which that happens, where relationships get strained or even break down entirely. We fail each other or disappoint each other. That goes for parents, siblings, kids, marriage partners - the whole enchilada.”
Mary Karr“There are women succeeding beyond their wildest dreams because of their sobriety.”
Mary Karr“Joy, it is, which I've never known before, only pleasure or excitement. Joy is a different thing, because its focus exists outside the self-delight in something external, not satisfaction of some inner craving.”
Mary Karr“I think a dysfunctional family is any family with more than one person in it.”
Mary Karr“A university is a city of ideas, and we're grateful you became citizens of our city.”
Mary Karr“The American religion-so far as there is one anymore-seems to be doubt. Whoever believes the least wins, because he'll never be found wrong.”
Mary Karr“But it's a neurological fact that the scared self holds on while the reasoned one lets go.”
Mary Karr