“The writer is the duelist who never fights at the stated hour, who gathers up an insult, like another curious object, a collector's item, spreads it out on his desk later, and then engages in a duel with it verbally. Some people call it weakness. I call it postponement. What is weakness in the man becomes a quality in the writer. For he preserves, collects what will explode later in his work. That is why the writer is the loneliest man in the world; because he lives, fights, dies, is reborn always alone; all his roles are played behind a curtain. In life he is an incongruous figure.”
Anaïs Nin“When you trust, you are tender and delicate, but when you doubt, you are dangerous and destructive”
Anaïs Nin, The Four-Chambered Heart: V3 in Nin's Continuous Novel“There is not one big cosmic meaning for all; there is only the meaning we each give to our life, an individual meaning, an individual plot, like an individual novel, a book for each person.”
Anaïs Nin, The Diary of Anaïs Nin, Vol. 1: 1931-1934“He failed to see that it contained at once all of Djuna's wishes which had been denied, and these wishes had flown from all directions to meet at this intersection and to plead once more for understanding.”
Anaïs Nin, The Four-Chambered Heart: V3 in Nin's Continuous Novel“I loved your breaking down that door, repeated Djuna. Through Rango she had breathed some other realm she had never attained before. She had touched through his act some climate of violence she had never known before.”
Anaïs Nin, The Four-Chambered Heart: V3 in Nin's Continuous Novel“No moment of charm without long roots in the past, no moment of charm is born on bare soil, a careless accident of beauty, but is the sum of great sorrows, growths, and efforts.”
Anaïs Nin, The Four-Chambered Heart: V3 in Nin's Continuous Novel“Paul, Paul, this is the claim you never made, the fervor you never showed. You were so cool and light, so elusive, and I never felt you encircling me and claiming possession. Rango is saying all the words I wanted to hear you say. You never came close to me, even while taking me. You took me as men take foreign women in distant countries whose language they cannot speak. You took me in silence and strangeness.”
Anaïs Nin, The Four-Chambered Heart: V3 in Nin's Continuous Novel“Her presence had awakened in him a man suddenly whipped by his earlier ideals, whose lost manhood wanted to assert itself in action.”
Anaïs Nin, The Four-Chambered Heart: V3 in Nin's Continuous Novel“Men from the mountains always dream of the sea, and above all things I love to travel.”
Anaïs Nin, The Four-Chambered Heart: V3 in Nin's Continuous Novel“Every lover could be brought to trial as the murderer of his own love. When something hurts you, saddens you, I rush to avoid it, to alter it, to feel as you do, but you turn away with a gesture of impatience and say: "I don't understand”
Anaïs Nin, The Four-Chambered Heart: V3 in Nin's Continuous Novel“He had appointed her not only guardian angel, but a member of his ideals.”
Anaïs Nin, The Four-Chambered Heart: V3 in Nin's Continuous Novel