“This catch-22 happens a lot to men. A man can sense that a woman wants to know if he loves her. He doesn't want to share those feelings because, if he does, she will expect him to marry her and be greatly hurt if he doesn't. In romantic movies, loving someone meant that you wanted to marry her. In real life, it is not always the case.”
John N. Gray“This catch-22 happens a lot to men. A man can sense that a woman wants to know if he loves her. He doesn't want to share those feelings because, if he does, she will expect him to marry her and be greatly hurt if he doesn't. In romantic movies, loving someone meant that you wanted to marry her. In real life, it is not always the case.”
John N. Gray“Dickens enjoyed human beings as he found them, unregenerate, peculiar and incorrigibly themselves.”
John N. Gray“If there is anything unique about the human animal, it is that it has the ability to grow knowledge at an accelerating rate while being chronically incapable of learning from experience.”
John N. Gray“Long after the traces of the human animal have disappeared, many of the species it is bent on destroying will still be around, along with others that have yet to spring up.The Earth will forget mankind. The play of life will go on.”
John N. Gray, Straw Dogs: Thoughts on Humans and Other Animals“Anyone who truly wants to escape human solipsism should not seek out empty places. Instead of fleeing to desert, where they will be thrown back into their own thoughts, they will d better to seek out the company of other animals. A zoo is a better window from which to look out of the human world than a monastery.”
John N. Gray, Straw Dogs: Thoughts on Humans and Other Animals“Tragedy is born of myth, not morality. Prometheus and Icarus are tragic heroes. Yet none of the myths in which they appear has anything to do with moral dilemmas. Nor have the greatest Greek tragedies. If Euripides is the most tragic of the Greek playwrights, it is not because he deals with moral conflicts but because he understood that reason cannot be the guide of life.”
John N. Gray, Straw Dogs: Thoughts on Humans and Other Animals“If you believe that humans are animals, there can be no such thing as the history of humanity, only the lives of particular humans. If we speak of the history of the species at all, it is only to signify the unknowable sum of these lives. As with other animals, some lives are happy, others wretched. None has a meaning that lies beyond itself.”
John N. Gray, Straw Dogs: Thoughts on Humans and Other Animals“From being a movement aiming for universal freedom, communism turned into a system of universal despotism. That is the logic of utopia.”
John N. Gray, The Silence of Animals: On Progress and Other Modern Myths“Life was indeed cruel”
but it was better to glorify the Will than deny it.