“When virtues are pointed out first, flaws seem less insurmountable.”
Judith Martin“We are born charming, fresh and spontaneous and must be civilized before we are fit to participate in society.”
Judith Martin“Many people mistakenly think a new technology cancels out an old one.”
Judith Martin“It's far more impressive when others discover your good qualities without your help.”
Judith Martin“Freedom without rules doesn't work. And communities do not work unless they are regulated by etiquette.”
Judith Martin“I am a traditionalist, and I'm an innovator. Most of what I do is to weigh change and legislate to the best of my ability on what should change and what should not. Do I have a respect for tradition? Of course I do. Do I have a blind belief in it? No.”
Judith Martin“The simple idea that everyone needs a reasonable amount of challenging work in his or her life and also a personal life complete with noncompetitive leisure has never really taken hold.”
Judith Martin“It is far more impressive when others discover your good qualities without your help.”
Judith Martin“When you're in love you put up with things that when you're out of love you cite.”
Judith Martin“A wedding invitation is sent by people who have been saying "Do we have to ask them?" to people whose first response is "How much do you think we have to spend on them?"”
Judith Martin“The invention of the teenager was a mistake. Once you identify a period of life in which people get to stay out late but don't have to pay taxes - naturally, no one wants to live any other way.”
Judith Martin