“Without trust, our relationships lack an essential ingredient for emotional intimacy. We need to be able to totally trust our partner with our deepest thoughts, dreams, fears, and secrets.”
Cathy Burnham Martin“It’s amazing how many cheaters and liars believe they won’t be caught. News Flash: In today’s age of technology, there won’t just be a paper trail. There will be multiple electronic and digital trails, as well.”
Cathy Burnham Martin, The Bimbo Has Brains: And Other Freaky Facts“Life belongs to optimists. Pessimists are just viewers. Making it real, starts with our attitude.”
Cathy Burnham Martin, The Bimbo Has Brains: And Other Freaky Facts“No one needs to be around someone who dulls the shine on a brand new penny.”
Cathy Burnham Martin, The Bimbo Has Brains: And Other Freaky Facts“We are imperfect humans and are bound to need attitude adjustments from time to time.”
Cathy Burnham Martin, The Bimbo Has Brains: And Other Freaky Facts“If there were past misdeeds, I do not believe we should nag or repeat them, never mind throw them in someone’s face. If they sincerely apologized and we genuinely forgave them, we must move on. Learn from mistakes, but move on. If we bring them up and toss them at the offender, we may not have actually forgiven them, even if we claim we have.”
Cathy Burnham Martin, The Bimbo Has Brains: And Other Freaky Facts“We will remember the hurt, the injustice, and the trauma, but we can forgive the sinner.”
Cathy Burnham Martin, The Bimbo Has Brains: And Other Freaky Facts“Trust means that they will never throw our pain and vulnerabilities in our face. Trust means we know they will protect us and our innermost thoughts and shared feelings without question.”
Cathy Burnham Martin, The Bimbo Has Brains: And Other Freaky Facts“Unconditional love takes a strong and deliberate evolution. Unconditional love is way beyond emotional involvement. This is loving the person inside the person… loving their very soul.”
Cathy Burnham Martin, The Bimbo Has Brains: And Other Freaky Facts“Societies that have condoned male cheating and condemned female cheating are simply male-dominated cultures. Cheating is cheating, no matter who is doing it. It’s wrong.”
Cathy Burnham Martin, The Bimbo Has Brains: And Other Freaky Facts“It matters not which partner is bringing negativity into conversations and exchanges. Toxicity has no place at all between people who have promised to love each other.”
Cathy Burnham Martin, The Bimbo Has Brains: And Other Freaky Facts